こないだ家で話をしていて、
誰かがよく読んでると言うナンパ師（と言っていいのか）のブログの話が出て、
そういうこと出来る人ってすごいよね、と思ったのです。
それが出来れば、世の中の人誰とでも話せることになるから！すごくね？すごいよね。
自分に当てはめて、
接点が無い人にいきなり声をかけられるタイミングっていつだろうって考えると、
よく行くお店の店員さんとかが思い浮かぶ。
それで仲良くなることって結構あって。
おかげで社食の店員さんは、ほぼみんな話せます。
そうやって話しかけることが出来るのってなんでかなぁ。
やっぱ口実があるからだと思うのですよね。
何かその場で共有しているモノなりコトがあって、
そういう意味で話しかける口実があって、チャンスがあって。
言い方を変えると、話しかけても言い訳が立つわけです。
と、考えると、
話しやすく（話し掛けられやすく）なるためには
口実を意図的に作っていけばよい、と言う結論に至ります。
帰り道に寄ったauショップの店員さんに、
「ケータイの話とは全く関係無くて非常に恐縮なんですけど・・・」
と言う前置きの元、持ってたカバンに付いてたキャラクターについて聞かれ
やたら盛り上がった。
口実って言うとあれですが、結局その程度のことなのかも知れません。
誰かがよく読んでると言うナンパ師（と言っていいのか）のブログの話が出て、
そういうこと出来る人ってすごいよね、と思ったのです。
それが出来れば、世の中の人誰とでも話せることになるから！すごくね？すごいよね。
自分に当てはめて、
接点が無い人にいきなり声をかけられるタイミングっていつだろうって考えると、
よく行くお店の店員さんとかが思い浮かぶ。
それで仲良くなることって結構あって。
おかげで社食の店員さんは、ほぼみんな話せます。
そうやって話しかけることが出来るのってなんでかなぁ。
やっぱ口実があるからだと思うのですよね。
何かその場で共有しているモノなりコトがあって、
そういう意味で話しかける口実があって、チャンスがあって。
言い方を変えると、話しかけても言い訳が立つわけです。
と、考えると、
話しやすく（話し掛けられやすく）なるためには
口実を意図的に作っていけばよい、と言う結論に至ります。
帰り道に寄ったauショップの店員さんに、
「ケータイの話とは全く関係無くて非常に恐縮なんですけど・・・」
と言う前置きの元、持ってたカバンに付いてたキャラクターについて聞かれ
やたら盛り上がった。
口実って言うとあれですが、結局その程度のことなのかも知れません。
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