「忙しいとか言ってたら、一生何も出来ないんだよ!」
と言っている同期がいて、確かにほんとそうだよなと思った。
たとえば「忙しいから送別会行けません。。」
って言うのは、言い方を変えると
「めんどくさいから行きません」
「飲み会は○○と比較して優先順位上がらないので行きません」
ってとこなわけで。
まぁ、納得するかどうかは別として、
俺はそう言われた方がよっぽど理解は出来るんですが。
言いたいのは、
「忙しい」と言う言葉は色々丸めて、
ぼやかすための言葉に過ぎないよなぁ、ってこと。
だって「忙しい」だけだと、何も事の本質を語っていないし。
忙しい、と言えば言うほど嘘を付いているように感じる。
「忙しい」、と言う言葉の、裏にある気持ちは何なの?何でそれを隠すの?
その言葉を聴くたび、何で?と聞いてしまうのはそういう気持ち。
と言っている同期がいて、確かにほんとそうだよなと思った。
たとえば「忙しいから送別会行けません。。」
って言うのは、言い方を変えると
「めんどくさいから行きません」
「飲み会は○○と比較して優先順位上がらないので行きません」
ってとこなわけで。
まぁ、納得するかどうかは別として、
俺はそう言われた方がよっぽど理解は出来るんですが。
言いたいのは、
「忙しい」と言う言葉は色々丸めて、
ぼやかすための言葉に過ぎないよなぁ、ってこと。
だって「忙しい」だけだと、何も事の本質を語っていないし。
忙しい、と言えば言うほど嘘を付いているように感じる。
「忙しい」、と言う言葉の、裏にある気持ちは何なの?何でそれを隠すの?
その言葉を聴くたび、何で?と聞いてしまうのはそういう気持ち。
忙しい裏の気持ちを説明するのも忙しくて無理やねんw
ひさびさにコメント。
忙しい、とは便利な言葉で、
本当の意味で忙しい、という人はなかなかいない気がする。
だけど、本当に忙しいときは、
心が亡くなっているときであって、
それはほかの人に理由を説明する気になれないんじゃないかな、
と思うのでした。
まんとるが言う、理解できる、
という発想に至れる人は比較的少ないと思うし、
たいていの人は忙しい、という言葉で納得するし、
忙しい、という人は説明をしたくないからそう語るわけで、
それを敢えて突っ込むのは、信頼関係があるならいいけれど、
中途半端な関係のうちにそれをするのは、
相手に対して少し優しくないと思う。まる。
>たっきゅう
わかったから死なないようにがんばれwww
>スイト
おひさしー。
まぁ、そこまで究極的に忙しいんやったら、話すらできへんわなw
>それを敢えて突っ込むのは、信頼関係があるならいいけれど、
>中途半端な関係のうちにそれをするのは、
>相手に対して少し優しくないと思う。まる。
わかってると思うけど、信頼関係も無いのに突っ込んだりはせーへんから!それは前提。
相手に興味があるし、信頼もしているからちゃんと聞きたいわけで。
で、信頼しているのに「忙しい」で済まされるとがっかりだよなー、と言う話です。
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