今日もゴキゲンに。

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最近、人に対して妙に苛立つことが多い。
別にイライラしたって解決しないのは分かってるのにね。
会う人が増えて来て、比較してしまうからだろうか。
特に、意志の無さ(≒志の低さ)、やるやる詐欺(やるって言っといてやらないの)
の2つが特に引っかかる。
しかしまぁ、自分でも思うけど傲慢だな。。

よんとおが今日やけにゴキゲンなメールを送ってきたんだけど、
こうあるべきだし、これが本当だなぁと。おもた。

反射的にイラッと来る気持ちを抑えて、
諭す気持ちに転化出来れば、それが余裕になるのだろうな。
本当にやりたいことは、相手を変えて、自分を変えて、
お互い望ましい関係になることなのですもの。


「余裕を持って」
これ、意外とすごいことなのかも。

 #らくえん書初め大会の一つより。

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まさかの「余裕をもって」w
誰か忘れたけど、「自分をかえずに相手を変えようとするから不満がたまる、自分を変えることの方が、ずっと早くて楽なこと」といってました。
方法をかえ、やり方をかえ、はたまたそんな事を気にもとめなくなるほど自分が大きく成長するのか。。。
えらいひとはいるもんやねぇ。

自分が変わるのなんて、よく考えたら1秒だね。
余裕はだいじ!
Uちゃん、はやく家に連れてきてー。笑
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