空気になるくらいなら

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「空気になるくらいなら○○の方がいい。」
みんな何を入れるのだろうか。
あるいは、空気の方がいい?
ちなみに俺は○○に××を入れた結果、
今でも「ちかちゃん」とか「ちかてぃー」と会社で呼ばれるのですが。
 #結構気に入ってます。

人の集団がある以上、ポジションの確立と言うか
(おおげさに言うと)ブランディングは不可欠だなぁと思います。
じゃないと空気になりかねないので。とか思うのは臆病なのかなぁ。

自分の居心地のポジションは、コミュニティが変わってもあまり変わんなくて。
だからいつものポジションが取れないところに行くと
妙にそわそわしたり、なんとなーく居づらかったりする。


ふむ。
居心地の良い場所と言うのは、自分のポジションが認められていて、
居場所があるって自分が感じられるところのことなのかも。

と、すると。
居心地の良い場所を作るということは、
個々人の在り方を、周りが保証することによって
(ある意味、意図的に)作れるのではないだろうか。

つまり、そこが彼&彼女にとって居心地の良い場所であるということと
周りが彼&彼女をよく知っていると言うのは必要十分な関係になっているのだろう。

あれ・・・すごく当たり前な結論になってしまった・・・
でも、そういうことだよね。
そういう関係でありたい。

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なるほど!!

いいこというねぇ☆たしかにそうかも!!

でも、私、結構人によって、ポジションちがうかも!
後輩の前だと お姉さんでいるし、気を抜いて妹でいられる集団って、少ないけど家族、とくにうちのシッカリ者の弟君の前とかだと ワガママゆって妹ぽいかもね。(お姉ちゃんなのに笑)

確かに、お姉ちゃん要素も妹要素もどっちも見えるなぁ。(笑)

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