昨日の出来事２番と３番について考えてみる。
自分が言うべきなのは、自分自身にしか言えないことだといつも思う。
誰にでも言えることは誰かに任せてしまいたい。
慰めたり、ただ話を聞くだけだったり、と言うことは。
俺がそれをするのは、
その人が俺自身にそれを求めている時だけでいいと思う。
自分に言えること（自分にしか言えないこと）とは何であるか。
それは俺が俺自身の経験に基づいて、
俺自身が考えたことで、
その人がどうしたらいいと俺が思うかを言うこと、だと思う。
それが、自分に出来るその人に対して一番役に立てることだと思うから。
（誰にも代わりが出来ない意見を俺が言ってる、と言う意味で）
何を言うべきかと言うのは人との距離の問題で、
慰めるのはごくごく身近にいる人なんじゃないか。
（だから近くにいる人が言うべきことは、
慰めであるのだと、思う。
だって、あくまでその人に慰めて欲しいんやと思うから。）
自分がそのごくごく身近にいる人でないのなら、
自分に出来るのは最大限建設的な、
自分にしか言えないことを言うことだと思う。
きっといつも、俺は優しくないと思われてるんやろうなぁ。
すぐに厳しい（つもりはないんだけど）ことを言うし。
あんまり同情しないから。つめてー。
別にあえて冷たくあろうとしているわけではなくて、
この人がこうなったら、この人にとって一番いいんじゃないかなぁ、
と言うことを促進出来ればいいと思っているだけなので。
ちょっと違うけど、エヴァに出てくる好きなセリフ。
「俺はここで水を撒くことしかできない。
だが、君には、君にしかできない、君にならできることがあるはずだ。」
ｂｙ 加持リョウジ
人と人との関わりにおいても、
自分にしか果たせない役割と言うのがあると思う。
ちゃんとそれを見つけ出して、果たしていきたい。
それが、人に対する自分の最大限の敬意。
自分にしかできないこと、かー。
ちょっと探している最中なので、がんばれそうです。
む、昨日の出来事一番は？？
明日（今日？）楽しみにしてるでー。
出来事一番はゲーセンの大会で３回戦まで行きました、って話なのでパスｗ
＞自分に出来るのは最大限建設的な、
自分にしか言えないことを言うことだと思う。
うむ、確かにこれには同意やな。
まぁ後はその伝え方によるんとちゃうかなぁと思うわ。
同じ内容でも、相手の反応を見ながら伝え方を変えることで、より相手に伝わるんとちゃうかな。
時には厳しく接しないとわからんような奴もいれば、時にはひとつひとつ諭すように接したほうがいい相手もおる。
意地っ張りな人は、強く言われると反抗したがる傾向にあるしな。自分の言われてることが正しいと分かっていても・・・。まぁ自分にもそういう経験があるからやけど（笑
あと、ｴｳﾞｧで好きなのは
洞木「不潔よっ！二人ともっ！」
シンジ「誤解だよ！」
アスカ「誤解だわ！」
洞木「誤解（五階）も六階もないわぁ～～っ！」
ってとこ。
うむ、完全に余談（笑
inordinate diary you've get
im an avid play of dragonfable and wish to say that i take enjoyment in investigating your blogging site website alot
What a lovely day for a 1933163! SCK was here
why is this so?
I’d have to check with you here. Which is not something I usually do! I enjoy reading a post that will make people think. Also, thanks for allowing me to comment!
hello there and great evening, just needed to drop by and say hello there. I've a blogging site about gps watches.
I feel that may be an interesting aspect, it made me assume a bit. Thank you for sparking my pondering cap. From time to time I am getting such a lot in a rut that I simply feel like a record.
היי האם אתם יודעים שמומלץ להזמין מאמנת כושר אישי, מאמן כושר אישי, בא אליך 3 פעמים בשבוע. כדאי לפעילות גופנית, בונה לך תוכנית כושר אישית שמתאימה לך למטרה שלך
When you're focused on a new gps watch for men. Visit your website.
You made certain nice points there. I did a search on the theme and found the majority of persons will have the same opinion with your blog.
Best xrumer seo services - obtain Leading rankings and also substantial site visitors using our amazing backlinks deals. Most powerful & cost efficient oneway links solution ever! XrumerGod.com - seo optimization - one-way links - web marketing - search engine marketing tactics - social network sites
Hey! I know this is kinda off topic however I'd figured I'd ask. Would you be interested in exchanging links or maybe guest writing a blog article or vice-versa? My site covers a lot of the same topics as yours and I feel we could greatly benefit from each other. If you are interested feel free to send me an email. I look forward to hearing from you! Terrific blog by the way!
Intersting information
I don’t even know how I ended up here, but I thought this post was great.
Many thanks for posting this, It?s simply what I used to be researching for on bing. I?d loads relatively hear opinions from an individual, barely than an organization web web page, that?s why I like blogs so significantly. Many thanks!
Intersting information
Ya I actually have used the acai berry supplement .It is terribly effective and it does'nt take an excessive amount of time to point out the result.
Youre so awesome, man! I cant believe I missed this blog for so long. Its just great stuff all round. Your design, man...too amazing! I cant wait to read what youve got next. I love everything that youre saying and want more, more, MORE! Keep this up, man! Its just too good.
Seaside dwellings are genuinely well-known in the region, so even despite the fact that the people preceding are usually not necessarily agreeing with everything that I consider, they still do provide about relatively excellent factors relating to real estate right here.
I am having a weird downside I cannot appear to be ready to link to your rss feed. i'm using google reader Fyi.
You...are...my...hero!!! I cant believe something like this exists on the internet! Its so true, so honest, and more than that you dont sound like an idiot! Finally, someone who knows how to talk about a subject without sounding like a kid who didnt get that bike he wanted for Christmas.
Spot on with this write-up, I truly think this web site needs far more consideration. I’ll in all probability be once more to learn way more, thanks for that info.
I have read a few of the articles on your website now, and I really like your style of blogging. I added it to my favorites blog site list and will be checking back soon. Please check out my site as well and let me know what you think.
Thanks for making the trustworthy attempt to speak about this. I feel very strong approximately it and want to read more. If it's OK, as you acquire more intensive knowledge, would you mind including extra articles very similar to this one with additional info? It might be extraordinarily helpful and helpful for me and my friends.
It's not that I want to duplicate your web site, but I really like the style. Could you tell me which theme are you using? Or was it especially designed?
husky logbook youve land
I've been studying your entries during my morning holiday, and I must admit the whole article has been very enlightening and very well written. I thought I would can help you recognize that for some reason this blog does no longer view neatly in Internet Explorer 8. I desire Microsoft might stop converting their software. I've a question for you. Could you thoughts changing weblog roll links? That would be actually neat!
If only it was as easy to implement some of the solutions as it was to read and nod my head at each of your points.it will be more energetic for me to read your next post also. it will really enhance my knowledge database.our write up is a fine example of your ability in writing .
You lost me, friend. I mean, I assume I get what youre expressing. I recognize what you're saying, but you just appear to have ignored that there are some other men and women inside the world who view this matter for what it actually is and may well not agree with you. You may possibly be turning away a lot of folks who might have been followers of your web log.
strategist breakout photo synthetic revising tribal basis jealousy disclosure harmful breen vilin
I found so many interesting stuff in your blog especially its discussion. From the tons of comments on your articles, I guess I am not the only one having all the enjoyment here! keep up the good work.
Thanks, thanks for the awesome posting. I’m having troubles subscribing to your blogs feed. Thought I’d let you know
You got a very superb website, Gladiolus I observed it through yahoo.
conclusion that you are absolutely right but a few require to be
Admiring the persistence you put into your site and in depth information you provide. It's great to come across a blog every once in a while that isn't the same old rehashed material. Fantastic read! I've saved your site and I'm including your RSS feeds to my Google account.
Whoa! This blog looks exactly like my old one! It's on a entirely different topic but it has pretty much the same page layout and design. Excellent choice of colors!
Good work, always enjoy reading your stuff.
Hmmm…great to find out, there were without a doubt a number of points that I hadn’t thought of before. Lisa
Hmm it appears like your blog ate my first comment (it was super long) so I guess I'll just sum it up what I had written and say, I'm thoroughly enjoying your blog. I as well am an aspiring blog writer but I'm still new to everything. Do you have any points for first-time blog writers? I'd genuinely appreciate it.
I am speechless. This can be a excellent blog and really enticing too. Nice work! That's now not really much coming from an amateur publisher like me, but it surely's all I may say after diving into your posts. Great grammar and vocabulary. Not like different blogs. You actually understand what you?re talking about too. So much that you just made me want to discover more. Your weblog has transform a stepping stone for me, my friend.
Strange this post is totaly unrelated to what I was searching google for, nevertheless it was listed on the first page. I guess your doing something proper if Google likes you enough to position you on the first web page of a non similar search.
Pretty nice post, I was doing a google search and your site came up for bank owned homes in Oviedo, FL but anyway, I have had a pleasant time reading it, keep it up!
Awesome information thanks
Hey this is a excellent post. I'm going to mail this to my associates. I stumbled on this while exploring on google I'll be sure to come back. thanks for sharing.
This was a good read. Thanks for the post.
Great post, are you looking for real estate in Sanford, FL? Learn where the deals are, get foreclosure lists and find houses for sale in Longwood.
I’ve read some good stuff here. Definitely worth bookmarking for revisiting. I wonder how much effort you put to create such a excellent informative web site.