最初のコミュニケーションの取りやすさ

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初期コミュニケーションの取りやすさの人における違いについて.

人を見る時,自然にカテゴライズしてる気がする.
もう20年以上も生きてるんだもん,
人の共通点は見つかって当然だと思う.
もちろん違う人なんだから,違うところはいっぱいあるんだけどね.
それでも性格とか考え方とか,
共通部分があれば同じカテゴリーに分類できるやんか.

新しい人を見る時,
「この人はこういうカテゴリの人やな」
と言うことを判断して,
自然にその人にあった対応の仕方を選ぶことによって
円滑に初期コミュニケーションを取ってると思うわけ.
それが出来るようにどんどんトレーニングされていってると思う.
これ自体は自然なことだと思うから,いいんだけど.

しかし新しいカテゴリの人が出てきた場合,
結構戸惑ってることが最近自覚出来た.
昔は自分の持ってるカテゴリ自体少なかったんだから,
その戸惑い自体いっぱいあったはずなんだけどな.
最近はカテゴリが増えて来て,戸惑うことが少なくなってたから
余計に驚くのかも知れない.


抽象的に書いたけど,
思うのはどんな人に対してでも自信を持って生きていきたいなってこと.
「俺はこう思います」
って言えなくなったら,自分が自分じゃないもんね.

世の中のこと全ては理解できないけど,
自分自身の中身だけは全て理解したい.
俺がずっとやりたかったのは,そういうことやから.

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新カテゴリの人にはどういうふうに対処すればいいもんなんかな?

うーん,どうすればいいんかなぁ.
俺はいまのとこオロオロしてるけど(笑)
それでも時間が経てば馴染んで来て,
他の人と同じように自然に接することは出来るようになるよね.

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