今週もミーティングが終わった.
前に立つのであれば，準備をした上でやる発表が一番好き．
これなら自信持って説明出来ると，
作った資料に書いてある以上のことがすらすら頭に浮かんで来ると，
そういうのはよいですね．
自信を持って出来る事と言うのは押並べてとても気分がよろしい．
逆に言うと自信を持って出来ないことと言うのはとても気分が悪い．
合ってんのかな，間違ってんじゃないのかな，
と思いながらすることは発表に限らず，やるせなくなってしまいます．
つまり，行動の前にその行動に対する検討が必要であるなと．
経験的に分かりきってることや慣れていることの場合を除いて，
こうやったらどうなるのかな，と一度頭でシミュレーションしないと．
まんとるの壷の記事にしても，
書きながら見て，
アップする前に見て，
アップしてからページを見て，
と３度検討しております．
それで気に入らなかったらお蔵入りになって，
デスクトップのテキストファイルになっていくわけです．
自信やら検討やら書きましたけども，
結局のとこ，何でも「考えて」やるべきだと思うってこと．
無考えに「なんとなく」やるのではなく
意識的にやる事で充実もしますわね．
何で寝るの？→寝たいから
何で食べるの？→食べたいから
何で生きるの？→生きたいから
全ては何かをしたいと言う欲求に突き動かされているべき．
そしてそれを意識すべきであると．
何で発表するの？→楽しいから
何で楽しいの？→思ってる事言えるから
何で言いたいの？→やった事聞いて欲しいから
逆に辿っていくと，発表する内容が，自分が聞いて欲しい
と思える内容であるから発表したいと言うのがわかります．
そうすると発表を自分が自信を持てる内容にして，
と言うのはごく自然なことであるなと思います．
自分自身が楽しくあるように努力する，
と言うのは自分にとって一番自然なことです．
何で発表するの？→発表しなきゃいけないから
と言う楽しくない発想をしてしまうのはやだなと思います．
そんなの全然楽しくなる見込みが無いですから！
気を付けないとね．テンションが低いとそうなっちゃいそうだよ．
何で勉強するの?→勉強しなきゃいけないから
ではなく、→教養が深まるから、人生がもっと楽しくなるから、思考力が高まるから
という考え方ですね。
また、人と付き合うことに関しても、
何で一緒にいるの?→一緒にいると楽しいから、気持ちが安らぐから、気が合うから、お互い成長できるから…
ということができますね。
そのとおりやよねー．
"何でも"プラスの面を見て考えていけば
"何でも"楽しくなると思います．
ずっと楽しい気持ちでいられたら，
それほど幸せなことはないと思うなぁ．
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