おせっかい理論

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「それはこうした方がいいんじゃないの?」
「おれはこう思うんだけど。」
そうした方がきっとそいつのためになる、少なくとも自分はそう思う!
って強く思えるから、きっとそう言うんだと思います。

そいつのためっていうこと自体間違ってるのかも知れませんが、
人に何か意見や苦言を言う時、
それはきっとそいつが好きだから言うんだと思います。

だってはっきり言ってどうでもいいヤツになんて、
多分特に何も言いません。。
「こうなって欲しい!こうした方が絶対いい!」って、
きっと強く思えないですもん。


言ったことによる負の影響、例えば自分の意見によって、
そいつが結果的に良くない方向に進んでしまったりとか
余計に悩ませたりとか。
それを気にして何も言わない、もしくは当り障りの無いことを言うのって、
何て言うのかな、もったいない気がします。
だってそいつに何か言える近い位置にいるってことは、
何かを言ってプラスの影響を与えられる位置にいるってことですもん。
何も言わない、どうでもいいことを言うっていうのは、
言わば±0の影響しか与えないと思います。つまり影響無し。

それだったら多少リスクを負っても、
プラスの可能性に賭けて何か言いたい!
という、
まんとるのおせっかい理論なのでありました。

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